http://alirfad.wordpress.com/2008/02/29/low-self-esteem-a-disease-amongst-the-youth/ showing the way.... Wed, 22 Apr 2009 18:20:05 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 http://alirfad.wordpress.com/2008/02/29/low-self-esteem-a-disease-amongst-the-youth/#comment-101 masoomeh Tue, 18 Nov 2008 23:21:33 +0000 http://alirfad.wordpress.com/2008/02/29/low-self-esteem-a-disease-amongst-the-youth/#comment-101 please can you guide me some more on how to tackle the problem? I had a difficult childhood with a uncaring unloving stepmother and angry father. now I'm an adult living away from them I have a fiance I go to university but I constantly fear he will leave me or find someone else more attractive or not appreciate me and value me. he is a good man and he wouldn't do anything to hurt me, but I feel he has sensed my insecurity and and low self esteem and this makes me feel he isn't valuing me or appreciating me like he did at the beginning. Alhamdollellah I am young healthy and good looking. but due to the unloving upbringing I constantly live in anxiety which I cannot talk to any one about as they are not Muslim or even if so I feel too ashamed to express such feelings to them, I want my fiance to respect me and never underestimate me just because I do, the stress of him changing is so much I feel like breaking it off and slipping ever deeper into my loneliness. I ask Allah for help and pray allot it goes away for a while but comes back attacking me with anxiety, please can you guide me some more on how to tackle the problem? I had a difficult childhood with a uncaring unloving stepmother and angry father. now I’m an adult living away from them I have a fiance I go to university but I constantly fear he will leave me or find someone else more attractive or not appreciate me and value me. he is a good man and he wouldn’t do anything to hurt me, but I feel he has sensed my insecurity and and low self esteem and this makes me feel he isn’t valuing me or appreciating me like he did at the beginning. Alhamdollellah I am young healthy and good looking. but due to the unloving upbringing I constantly live in anxiety which I cannot talk to any one about as they are not Muslim or even if so I feel too ashamed to express such feelings to them, I want my fiance to respect me and never underestimate me just because I do, the stress of him changing is so much I feel like breaking it off and slipping ever deeper into my loneliness. I ask Allah for help and pray allot it goes away for a while but comes back attacking me with anxiety,

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